How to make friends and feel at home as an international student
Moving to a new country to study can be one of the most exciting things you’ll ever do – but also one of the most overwhelming. New people, new foods, a new language (maybe), and a different culture can leave you feeling out of place, at least for a while.
Making friends and feeling at home as an international student doesn’t always happen right away – and that’s okay. It takes time, intention, and sometimes a bit of courage. But there are some simple, effective ways to find your footing faster.
Here are 10 tips to help you feel more settled, connected, and confident as an international student – wherever you're studying.
1. Personalise your space
Your room is your retreat. Add photos of family and friends, display souvenirs from home, or pack small comfort items like a blanket, fragrance, or favorite mug. The more your space reflects who you are, the faster it’ll feel like yours.
2. Cook familiar foods
Food is a powerful connector to home. Recreate family recipes or comfort dishes you love – even if it takes a few tries. International supermarkets can help you track down the right ingredients. Want to meet new people? Host a dinner and introduce others to your cuisine and culture. Food builds bridges.
3. Create routine and structure
Routine grounds you. Set a regular wake-up time, establish a study schedule, go for daily walks, or designate a favorite café or library to work in. Apps like Duolingo can help with daily language learning, and weekly check-ins with family keep you connected to home while you build your new life abroad.
4. Build a support network
Your university likely has a range of services – use them. Whether it’s academic mentors, mental health support, or student societies, don’t hesitate to reach out. Beyond that, build a small circle of people you trust, whether they’re flatmates, classmates, or others you meet through social events. Your support system doesn’t have to be big – just strong.
5. Explore your new environment
Don’t just stay on campus. Visit local cafés, parks, museums, and community events. Try the local food, attend festivals, and learn about the traditions around you. The more you explore, the more confident and culturally aware you’ll become – and the easier it will be to feel at home without losing your identity.
A great way to discover your new environment and meet people in the process is by attending talks, panel discussions, or book signings on topics you care about. These events often attract like-minded people and create a cosy, thought-provoking setting – perfect for sparking conversations and building new friendships (or even something more).
6. Stay mentally and emotionally healthy
Homesickness is normal – and manageable. Journal your thoughts, try meditation or breathing exercises, and don’t underestimate the power of rest. Universities often offer counseling services, and there are plenty of mental health apps (like Headspace or Calm) that can help you reset.
7. Get involved in the community
Volunteering is a great way to meet people and contribute to your new city. Look for local charity shops, environmental groups, food banks, or campus-run community projects. Many universities also have buddy or peer support programmes to connect you with students who’ve been in your shoes.
8. Leverage technology
Use tech to stay connected and organised. Shared calendars, messaging apps, and regular video calls can keep you in the loop with loved ones back home. You can also use apps to meet people locally – check out Meetup for events, Bumble BFF for making friends, or Eventbrite for everything from yoga classes to language exchanges.
9. Say yes more often
When someone invites you to a coffee, study session, or event, say yes (even if you’re nervous). You don’t have to be an extrovert to make friends, but you do need to be open. Most of the best connections happen outside your comfort zone.
10. Be patient with yourself
Lastly, give it time. Culture shock, loneliness, and uncertainty are normal early on – but they pass. Celebrate your small wins, reflect on how far you’ve come, and remind yourself: it’s okay not to have it all figured out right away.
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Studying abroad is a life-changing experience, but feeling at home takes more than just unpacking your bags. With small daily actions and a little courage, you’ll find your people, your places, and your peace. You’ve got this.
Looking for a place to truly settle in while you study? We offer premium, student-friendly accommodation designed to help you feel at home from day one, with private spaces, flexible terms, and dedicated support to make your life abroad as smooth and comfortable as possible.
Want more practical tips for student life abroad? Explore our guides on budgeting, part-time work, culture shock, and local travel hacks – all written with international students in mind.
